5 Signs That Your “Dream” Wedding Photographer Isn’t the One - Choosing a wedding photographer Sydney

5 Red Flags That Your “Dream” Wedding Photographer Isn’t the One

Here’s the thing - finding your wedding photographer isn’t about who’s “the best” on paper. It’s about who’s the best for you. And while a beautiful Instagram feed can be tempting, it can also hide a whole lot of nope.

So, before you sign that contract, here are five red flags that say, “Run. Don’t walk.”

1. They care more about awards than your love story

If their website screams “Featured in Vogue” louder than it talks about the couples they’ve photographed, that’s your first clue.

Industry accolades are nice, but they won’t hold your hand through a timeline hiccup or make you laugh when nerves hit.

2. No sign of candid moments in their portfolio

If every shot looks like it belongs in a curated brand ad, where’s the proof they can capture the belly laughs, the teary glances, and the “holy crap, we’re married” moments?

3. They sell you on hours, not an experience

You’re not booking a number of hours - you’re booking how your day will feel. If the conversation is more about 8 vs 10 hours and less about “what matters to you most,” they’re missing the point.

4. No timeline or comfort talk

A good photographer will talk about run sheets, buffer time, and how they’ll help you feel comfortable. If they skip that? You’ll spend your day clock-watching instead of soaking it up.

5. You feel “meh” after meeting them

Your gut’s smarter than you think. If you don’t leave that first call feeling like you just chatted to an old friend who happens to own a camera - keep looking.

Did anything on the list hit a nerve?

If this list gave you the ick, or made you think twice about someone you’ve been considering to photograph your wedding - good.

Better to know now than regret it later.

If you want a photographer who listens, cares, and captures the magic without forcing it (hey, it’s me!), book a connection call and let’s chat.